The Dutch House by
Ann Patchett
My rating:
4 of 5 stars
Ann Patchett can do very little wrong in my book. I liked it even better after book club discussion. It raises a lot of questions, without giving a lot of answers. Themes of class, priorities, judgement, forgiveness, and parenting. And of course, brilliantly written.
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"In truth, I don't think he was particularly interested in Andrea. I just don't think he had the means to deal with her tenacity."
"But we overlay the present onto the past. We look back through the lens of what we know now, so we're not seeing it as the people we were, we're seeing it as the people we are, and that means the past has been radically altered."
"The point is that it's true. At the time I didn't hate her, so why do I scrub out every memory of kindness, ore even civility, in favor of the memories of someone being awful?" The point, I wanted to say, was that we shouldn't still be driving to the Dutch House, and the more we kept up our hate, the more we were forever doomed to live out our lives in a parked car on VanHoebeek Street.
That's the way it goes, I thought, admiring my own maturity. I would rather have kept the one Saturday a month with the two of us together in the car but I would take his trust instead. That was what it meant to grow up.