Friday, September 29, 2023

In the Country of Women

 

In the Country of WomenIn the Country of Women by Susan Straight
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I honestly don't know why I read memoirs. This one was written to the author's daughters and I am sure they loved it. I, on the other hand, had trouble following who was who especially the first half of the book--the author relates the backstories of several women in her family and her husband's family and I was constantly trying to keep the straight--which ones came from Sweden, which came from the South--which were her husband's mother's family and which her husband's father's? A family tree might have been helpful. There is a lot of skipping around. There are lots of little stories. I never could feel like a cohesive picture of who the author was or who her daughters were (or even, really, who her ancestors were). Details are skipped over (probably to save living relative's feelings). And sorry I don't think she owns up to any faults. But I do like the idea that we can gather strength and inspiration from those (especially ladies) that go before us.

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"It's like a hundred leaky faucets in a house.  Everything you feel.  You just turn off one faucet at a time.  Drip by drip.  It takes forever.  But one day you'll wake up and hear quiet."

Middlemarch

MiddlemarchMiddlemarch by George Eliot
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I loved the PBS series on Masterpiece when I was in college. I watched it as aggressively as some people watch playoff football. The book was just as good (if not better). Eliot uses the power of perspective so well--the things our characters cannot see because of their own circumstances and concerns, the things we place importance on because of age or society. It's also an examination of submission in marriage--how the balance of trust, equal respect, and championship of each other's strengths means more than economics, religion, or beauty in making the relationship work. And yes, Rufus Sewell figured predominately in my imagination as Will Laidslaw, because he was perfection.

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Many Theresas have been born who found for themselves no epic life wherein there was a constant unfolding of far-resonant action; perhaps only a life of mistakes, the offspring of a certain spiritual grandeur ill-matched with the meanness of opportunity; perhaps a tragic failure which found no sacred poet and sank unwept into oblivion.

Here and there is born a Saint Theresa, foundress of nothing, whose loving heart-beats and sobs after an unattained goodness tremble off and are dispersed among hindrances, instead of centering in some long-recognizable deed.

Women were expected to have weak opinions; but the great safeguard of society and of domestic life was, that opinions were not acted on. Sane people did what their neighbors did, so that if any lunatics were at large, one might know and avoid them.

They were not thin hands, or small hands; but powerful, feminine, maternal hands. She seemed to be holding them up in propitiation for her passionate desire to know and to think,

The great charm of your sex is its capability of an ardent self-sacrificing affection, and herein we see its fitness to round and complete the existence of our own.

“Your sex are not thinkers, you know—varium et mutabile semper—that kind of thing. You don’t know Virgil.

you are well rid of Miss Brooke, a girl who would have been requiring you to see the stars by daylight.

Now that she and the stranger had met, reality proved much more moving than anticipation, and Rosamond could not doubt that this was the great epoch of her life.

Our vanities differ as our noses do: all conceit is not the same conceit, but varies in correspondence with the minutiae of mental make in which one of us differs from another.

One must be poor to know the luxury of giving!

all that was living and warm-blooded seemed sunk in the deep degeneracy of a superstition divorced from reverence; the dimmer but yet eager Titanic life gazing and struggling on walls and ceilings; the long vistas of white forms whose marble eyes seemed to hold the monotonous light of an alien world: all this vast wreck of ambitious ideals, sensuous and spiritual, mixed confusedly with the signs of breathing forgetfulness and degradation, at first jarred her as with an electric shock,

red drapery which was being hung for Christmas spreading itself everywhere like a disease of the retina.

it. If we had a keen vision and feeling of all ordinary human life, it would be like hearing the grass grow and the squirrel’s heart beat, and we should die of that roar which lies on the other side of silence. As it is, the quickest of us walk about well wadded with stupidity.

With his taper stuck before him he forgot the absence of windows, and in bitter manuscript remarks on other men’s notions about the solar deities, he had become indifferent to the sunlight.

if she could have fed her affection with those childlike caresses which are the bent of every sweet woman, who has begun by showering kisses onthe hard pate of her bald doll, creating a happy soul within that woodenness from the wealth of her own love.

She was an angel beguiled.

“I call that the fanaticism of sympathy,” said Will, impetuously. “You might say the same of landscape, of poetry, of all refinement. If you carried it out you ought to be miserable in your own goodness, and turn evil that you might have no advantage over others. The best piety is to enjoy—when you can. You are doing the most then to save the earth’s character as an agreeable planet. And enjoyment radiates. It is of no use to try and take care of all the world; that is being taken care of when you feel delight—in art or in anything else.

Book 3 — Waiting for Death

Your pier-glass or extensive surface of polished steel made to be rubbed by a housemaid, will be minutely and multitudinously scratched in all directions; but place now against it a lighted candle as a centre of illumination, and lo! the scratches will seem to arrange themselves in a fine series of concentric circles round that little sun. It is demonstrable that the scratches are going everywhere impartially and it is only your candle which produces the flattering illusion of a concentric arrangement, its light falling with an exclusive optical selection. These things are a parable. The scratches are events, and the candle is the egoism of any person now absent—

Book 4 — Three Love Problems

I think his own feelings at that moment were perfect, for we mortals have our divine moments, when love is satisfied in the completeness the beloved object.

Will not a tiny speck very close to our vision blot out the glory of the world, and leave only a margin by which we see the blot? I know no speck so troublesome as self.

But what we call our despair is often only the painful eagerness of unfed hope.

Book 6 — The Widow and the Wife

He had regarded Rosamond’s cleverness as precisely of the receptive kind which became a woman. He was now beginning to find out what that cleverness was—what was the shape into which it had run as into a close network aloof and independent.

he felt the scenes of his earlier life coming between him and everything else, as obstinately as when we look through the window from a lighted room, the objects we turn our backs on are still before us, instead of the grass and the trees.

For religion can only change when the emotions which fill it are changed; and the religion of personal fear remains nearly at the level of the savage.

Book 7 — Two Temptations

Everybody liked better to conjecture how the thing was, than simply to know it; for conjecture soon became more confident than knowledge, and had a more liberal allowance for the incompatible.

Rosamond’s discontent in her marriage was due to the conditions of marriage itself, to its demand for self-suppression and tolerance, and not to the nature of her husband;

it seemed to him as if he were beholding in a magic panorama a future where he himself was sliding into that pleasureless yielding to the small solicitations of circumstance, which is a commoner history of perdition than any single momentous bargain.





Miss Kopp's Midnight Confessions

Miss Kopp's Midnight Confessions (Kopp Sisters, #3)Miss Kopp's Midnight Confessions by Amy Stewart
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I love that this is a very historical novel with actual footnotes documenting Constance's timelines at the end. It's a sweet story about three sisters with equally independent spirits (well, kinda sisters). But there just isn't that much to grab onto. While highlighting the inequality of morality standards between the sexes at that time, it was a bit dull tbh.

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Tom's River

Toms River: A Story of Science and SalvationToms River: A Story of Science and Salvation by Dan Fagin
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

We lived for awhile in South Jersey and so was familiar with Ocean City--yes, we swam in the ocean--and the white pine sands that were so porous, it was rumored that the mob used it to bury bodies since the bodies practically buried themselves. Apparently, that's not all the sands sucked up. Chemicals from coal tar related products were being dumped and the since the sands sucked them up, it seemed like the problem disappeared. But it simply made its way to municipal wells. And as a result, there seems to be an undeniably high incident rate of cancer (especially in children) in the area. It's an interesting book, but not exactly heartening. Wherever there are profits to be made, companies will cut corners. And government oversight is so stretched, and so defined by standards and statistics (that seem frustratingly unhelpful) that they seem useless as well. Individual people can make a difference, but it is a full time job. it's a problem, but even after reading this book I can't see where to even start to change things.

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Thursday, September 28, 2023

The Raven Tower

 

The Raven TowerThe Raven Tower by Ann Leckie
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Ann Leckie blows my mind every single time. While you are reading her books you are kind of like huh? Because she makes sentient things that aren't and in doing so creates a whole list of questions about what is to exist and what is important to be sentient. And that seems heavy, but everything just clicks by the end of her novels and has you buzzing in the best way possible. That this is also the retelling of Hamlet is just icing on the cake.

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These Truths

These Truths: A History of the United StatesThese Truths: A History of the United States by Jill Lepore
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Wow! Talk about ambitious! The whole history of the United States. It does have focus though. Lepore shows how the Constitution has evolved and the shifting of powers between the three branches of government. Most importantly, Lepore points out the role of journalism in disseminating truths (or untruths) to the people who make up the US democracy. Though it might be a long-winded argument for the validity and relevance of responsible news, she shows that the media are ultimately the watchdogs (and their vigilance or lack thereof can impede or encourage actual rule by the people) and now that news is mostly consumed in unregulated streaming services, the future for democracy seems shaky.

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Columbus had this difference from Marco Polo and Mandeville, too: he made his voyages not long after Johannes Gutenberg, a German blacksmith, invented the printing press.

The European extraction of the wealth of the Americas made possible the rise of capitalism: new forms of trade, investment, and profit.

Magna Carta wasn’t nearly as important as Coke made it out to be, but by arguing for its importance, he made it important,

This turn marked the beginning of a new era in the history of knowledge: it required a new doctrine of evidence and new method of inquiry and eventually led to the idea that an observed or witnessed act or thing—the substance, the matter, of fact—is the basis of truth.

Whitefield emphasized the divinity of ordinary people, at the expense of the authority of their ministers.

There were not one but two American revolutions at the end of the eighteenth century: the struggle for independence from Britain, and the struggle to end slavery. Only one was won.

Part Two: The People (1800–1865)

Opposition to free speech had long been the position of slave owners, a position taken at the constitutional convention and extended through the gag rule, antiliteracy laws, bans on the mails, and the suppression of speakers. An aversion to political debate also structured the Confederacy, which had both a distinctive character and a lasting influence on Americans’ ideas about federal authority as against popular sovereignty. Secessionists were attempting to build a modern, proslavery, antidemocratic state. In order to wage a war, the leaders of this fundamentally antidemocratic state needed popular support. Such support was difficult to gain and impossible to maintain. The Confederacy therefore suppressed dissent.

the Confederacy comprised fifteen states stretching over 900,000 square miles and containing 12 million people, including 4 million slaves, and 4 million white women who were disenfranchised. It rested on the foundational belief that a minority governs a majority.

Part Three: The State (1866–1945)

Mass democracy can’t work, Lippmann argued, because the new tools of mass persuasion—especially mass advertising—meant that a tiny minority could very easily persuade the majority to believe whatever it wished them to believe.

The best hope for mass democracy might have seemed to be the scrupulously and unfailingly honest reporting of news, but this, Lippmann thought, was doomed to fall short, because of the gap between facts and truth.

in the 1920s, Lee argued that facts don’t exist or, at least, they can’t be reported: “The effort to state an absolute fact is simply an attempt to achieve what is humanly impossible; all I can do is to give you my interpretation of the facts.”

For Lippmann, the battle between Bryan and Darrow wasn’t about evolution, it was about how people decide what’s true—does truth derive from faith or from reason?—and, more deeply, what happens in a democracy when people can’t agree about how they decide what’s true. Does the majority rule?

Part Four: The Machine (1946–2016)

computers, the product of long and deep study and experiment, would both explode and unsettle the very nature of knowledge.

During his administration, Congress mandated the inclusion of “In God We Trust” on all money and added “under God” to the Pledge of Allegiance. 113

In some corners of the left, the idea that everything was a lie became a fashionable truth.

If everything is politics, and politics is a series of lies, then there is no truth.

“There is one thing a professor can be absolutely certain of: almost every student entering his university believes, or says he believes, that truth is relative.”

“The squandering of energy on identity politics, the hardening of boundaries between groups, the insistence that individuals are no more than their labels, is an American tragedy,” Todd Gitlin wrote in 1995.

Entrenched partisanship in cable news eroded the institutions of democratic deliberation. The rise of cable news accelerated the polarization first of Congress and then of the electorate.

New sources of news tended to be unedited, their facts unverified, their politics unhinged.

nearly all political thinking became conspiratorial.

In a time of accelerating change, both the Far Left and the Far Right came to understand history itself as a plot, an understanding advanced by the very formlessness of the Internet, anonymous and impatient.

But in pursuing regime change in the Middle East, the Bush administration dismissed the advice of experts and took the radically postmodern view that all knowledge is relative, a matter of dueling political claims rather than of objective truth.

The means by which truth was to be established and justice secured, traditions established and refined over centuries, were deemed inconvenient.

The White House answered terrorism, an abandonment of the law of war, with torture, an abandonment of the rule of law.

public shaming as a mode of political discourse was every bit as much a part of the online Far Left as it was of the online Far Right, if not more.

Epilogue: The Question Addressed

The American experiment had not ended. A nation born in revolution will forever struggle against chaos. A nation founded on universal rights will wrestle against the forces of particularism. A nation that toppled a hierarchy of birth only to erect a hierarchy of wealth will never know tranquility. A nation of immigrants cannot close its borders. And a nation born in contradiction, liberty in a land of slavery, sovereignty in a land of conquest, will fight, forever, over the meaning of its history.

Barack Obama had urged Americans “to choose our better history,” a longer, more demanding, messier, and, finally, more uplifting story. But a nation cannot choose its past; it can only choose its future.



Ask Again, Yes

 

Ask Again, YesAsk Again, Yes by Mary Beth Keane
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This is was a great domestic drama about all the ways we hurt each other in a family, and a community. And all the ways we love each other. Luckily, love wins out in this one. Beautiful story.

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Tuesday, September 12, 2023

Guns, Germs, Steel

 

Guns, Germs, and Steel: The Fates of Human SocietiesGuns, Germs, and Steel: The Fates of Human Societies by Jared Diamond
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

We all know that those who possessed superior weapons were able to wipe out whole civilizations, and what the guns didn't do, disease finished off. But why? Why did European germs generally kill off new world people and not the other way around? Why did weapons become more lethal in some places and not others? Diamond methodically tracks back civilizations and comes up with some plausible answers that have nothing to do with the people living in different area, and everything to do with geography, weather and native plant and animal species. The second part of the book did not promise to be as interesting, with histories of each of the major landmasses--who conquered whom and why--but that also turned out to be interesting as he delves into how they know which people invaded whom by language and tool artifacts. This book could probably be easily condensed, but the information was insightful for me.

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“History followed different courses for different peoples because of differences among peoples’ environments, not because of biological differences among peoples themselves.”

Writing has evolved de novo only a few times in human history, in areas that had been the earliest sites of the rise of food production in their respective regions. All other societies that have become literate did so by the diffusion of writing systems or of the idea of writing from one of those few primary centers. Hence, for the student of world history, the phenomenon of writing is particularly useful for exploring another important constellation of causes: geography’s effect on the ease with which ideas and inventions spread.

By enabling farmers to generate food surpluses, food production permitted farming societies to support full-time craft specialists who did not grow their own food and who developed technologies.

Part One: From Eden to Cajamarca

That Great Leap Forward poses two major unresolved questions, regarding its triggering cause and its geographic location.

As for its cause, the perfection of the voice box and hence for the anatomical basis of modern language, on which the exercise of human creativity is so dependent.

modern Cro-Magnons somehow used their far superior technology, and their language skills or brains, to infect, kill, or displace the Neanderthals, leaving behind little or no evidence of hybridization between Neanderthals and Cro-Magnons.

The settlement of Australia / New Guinea was perhaps associated with still another big first, besides humans’ first use of watercraft and first range extension since reaching Eurasia: the first mass extermination of large animal species by humans.

on every one of the well-studied oceanic islands colonized in the prehistoric era, human colonization led to an extinction spasm whose victims included the moas of New Zealand, the giant lemurs of Madagascar, and the big flightless geese of Hawaii.

most big mammals of Africa and Eurasia survived into modern times, because they had coevolved with protohumans for hundreds of thousands or millions of years. They thereby enjoyed ample time to evolve a fear of humans, as our ancestors’ initially poor hunting skills slowly improved.

Those extinctions eliminated all the large wild animals that might otherwise have been candidates for domestication, and left native Australians and New Guineans with not a single native domestic animal.

Economies remained simplest on islands with low population densities (such as the hunter-gatherers of the Chathams), low population numbers (small atolls), or both low densities and low numbers. In those societies each household made what it needed; there was little or no economic specialization. Specialization increased on larger, more densely populated islands, reaching a peak on Samoa, the Societies, and especially Tonga and Hawaii

Social complexity was similarly varied.

Political organization followed the same trends.

THUS POLYNESIAN ISLAND societies differed greatly in their economic specialization, social complexity, political organization, and material products, related to differences in population size and density, related in turn to differences in island area, fragmentation, and isolation and in opportunities for subsistence and for intensifying food production.

literacy made the Spaniards heirs to a huge body of knowledge about human behavior and history.

Immediate reasons for Pizarro’s success included military technology based on guns, steel weapons, and horses; infectious diseases endemic in Eurasia; European maritime technology; the centralized political organization of European states; and writing.

Part Two: The Rise and Spread of Food Production

availability of more consumable calories means more people.

what arrived to launch food production in Egypt was foreign crops and animals, not foreign peoples.

One factor is the decline in the availability of wild foods.

an increased availability of domesticable wild plants made steps leading to plant domestication more rewarding.

development of technologies. two-way link between the rise in human population density and the rise in food production.

Thus, farmers selected from among individual plants on the basis not only of perceptible qualities like size and taste, but also of invisible features like seed dispersal mechanisms, germination inhibition, and reproductive biology.

these differences between the Fertile Crescent, New Guinea, and the eastern United States followed straightforwardly from the differing suites of wild plant and animal species available for domestication, not from limitations of the peoples themselves.

these local failures or limitations of food production cannot be attributed to competition from bountiful hunting opportunities.

big domestic mammals were crucial to those human societies possessing them. Most notably, they provided meat, milk products, fertilizer, land transport, leather, military assault vehicles, plow traction, and wool, as well as germs that killed previously unexposed peoples.

This very unequal distribution of wild ancestral species among the continents became an important reason why Eurasians, rather than peoples of other continents, were the ones to end up with guns, germs, and steel.

Humans and most animal species make an unhappy marriage, for one or more of many possible reasons: the animal’s diet, growth rate, mating habits, disposition, tendency to panic, and several distinct features of social organization.

Just as some regions proved much more suitable than others for the origins of food production, the ease of its spread also varied greatly around the world.

Eurasia provides the world’s widest band of land at the same latitude, and hence the most dramatic example of rapid spread of domesticates,

Africa and the Americas are thus the two largest landmasses with a predominantly north–south axis and resulting slow diffusion.

Part Three: From Food to Guns, Germs, and Steel

from our point of view, genital sores, diarrhea, and coughing are “symptoms of disease.” From a germ’s point of view, they’re clever evolutionary strategies to broadcast the germ.

Writing was never developed or even adopted by hunter-gatherer societies, because they lacked both the institutional uses of early writing and the social and agricultural mechanisms for generating the food surpluses required to feed scribes.

Let’s begin by comparing the acceptability of different inventions within the same society. It turns out that at least four factors influence acceptance. The first and most obvious factor is relative economic advantage compared with existing technology.

A second consideration is social value and prestige,

factor is compatibility with vested interests.

On any continent, at any given time, there are innovative societies and also conservative ones.

Sedentary living was decisive for the history of technology, because it enabled people to accumulate nonportable possessions.

the size of the regional population is the strongest single predictor of societal complexity.

FOOD PRODUCTION, which increases population size, also acts in many ways to make features of complex societies possible.

large society that continues to leave conflict resolution to all of its members is guaranteed to blow up.

large society must be structured and centralized if it is to reach decisions effectively.

Goods in excess of an individual’s needs must be transferred from the individual to a centralized authority, which then redistributes the goods to individuals with deficits.

Considerations of conflict resolution, decision making, economics, and space thus converge in requiring large societies to be centralized.

Part Four: Around the World in Six Chapters

New Guinea swamps thus provide a clear instance of an environment where people remained hunter-gatherers because farming could not compete with the hunting-gathering lifestyle.

With a mere 1,000,000 people, New Guinea could not develop the technology, writing, and political systems that arose among populations of tens of millions in China, the Fertile Crescent, the Andes, and Mesoamerica.

Nomadism, the hunter-gatherer lifestyle, and minimal investment in shelter and possessions were sensible adaptations to Australia’s ENSO-driven resource unpredictability.

Thus, we have identified three sets of ultimate factors that tipped the advantage to European invaders of the Americas: Eurasia’s long head start on human settlement; its more effective food production, resulting from greater availability of domesticable wild plants and especially of animals; and its less formidable geographic and ecological barriers to intracontinental diffusion.

But food production was delayed in sub-Saharan Africa (compared with Eurasia) by Africa’s paucity of domesticable native animal and plant species, its much smaller area suitable for indigenous food production, and its north–south axis, which retarded the spread of food production and inventions.

It’s true, of course, that some large African animals have occasionally been tamed. Hannibal enlisted tamed African elephants in his unsuccessful war against Rome, and ancient Egyptians may have tamed giraffes and other species. But none of those tamed animals was actually domesticated—that is, selectively bred in captivity and genetically modified so as to become more useful to humans.

only about one-third of its area falls within the sub-Saharan zone north of the equator that was occupied by farmers and herders before 1000 B.C. Today, the total population of Africa is less than 700 million, compared with 4 billion for Eurasia. But, all other things being equal, more land and more people mean more competing societies and inventions, hence a faster pace of development.

the Japanese environment is so productive that it was one of the few locations where people could settle down and make pottery while still living as hunter-gatherers.

there was little social stratification into chiefs and commoners




The Sisters Brothers

 

The Sisters BrothersThe Sisters Brothers by Patrick deWitt
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This is a quirky western, full of gunfights and grizzlies and gold. But also an environmental cautionary tale. Sure, toothpaste and painkillers make life more pleasant, but turn those chemicals into a shortcut for finding gold and greed has people killing each other for the formula, regardless of the fact the chemicals are so caustic they can even kill the people using them. Its an outlandish story told in Eli's factual plodding point of view, making all that happens seem inevitable.


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There is a feeling here, which if it gets you, will envenom your very center.  It is a madness of possibilities.

Lessons in Chemistry

 

Lessons in ChemistryLessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This book seems to be on every "best of" lists and so it's hard to put preconceptions out of your mind while reading it. It is a good book--it has funny parts, it is well written, and probably all women can relate to some of the prejudices and mistreatment of Elizabeth Zott as she tries to make it in a predominately man's world. (Set in the past, the prejudices can be exacerbated but sadly still very relatable). Still, something was off for me and I couldn't say it was a great book. I think what it is, is that Elizabeth never seems very happy. Sure, she is smart, athletic, and compassionate, and has to deal with more than her share of belittling, humiliation, and underestimation, and her drive, uncompromising spirit, and persistence can be admirable. But she always seems to be ready for a fight, depressed, and defensive (not that I blame her). It's perfectly reasonable for her to be this way, and may be part of the point of the story, but it is hard to root for a character who never seems to take even momentary pleasure.

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other women did want children and a career.  And what was wrong with that?  Nothing.  It was exactly what men got.

She would weather what came.  But weathering is called weathering for a reason: it erodes.

Everyone needed help.  But maybe because she'd never been offered any, she refused to believe in it.

the dust that was so much a part of death

"What I find interesting about rowing," Dr. Mason was saying, "is that it's always done backwards.  It's almost as if the sport itself is trying to teach us not to get ahead of ourselves."

wasn't that the very definition of life?  Constant adaptions brought about by a series of never-ending mistakes?