Monday, September 30, 2024

The Secret History of Wonder Woman

 

The Secret History of Wonder WomanThe Secret History of Wonder Woman by Jill Lepore
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Jill Lepore does a more than decent job of gleaning what she can about the man who created Wonder Woman, but by her own admission there is a lot that was lost (purposefully by the women in his life). This history mainly delves into Marston, the creator of Wonder Woman, who is full of complexities. He is a psychiatrist and lawyer, but not very successful at either. He pushes his invention, the lie detector, but doesn't seem to get the credit for it. He lobbies for women's rights but thinks women like submission. He has three women in his life, but isn't particularly successful or attractive or even all that charismatic (based on his inability to hold down a job). Wonder Woman too seems rather conflicted--a woman with other worldly powers but who gets bound up by men and whose weakness is a man named Steve. There is a lot about women suffrage because one of his "wives" was related Margaret Sanger. But I was surprised that there wasn't more history of the spin-off show or what Wonder Woman has come to mean in today's world (though there is a little of this). It surely was interesting, even if the limited information Lepore was working with leaves lots of questions. Lots of illustrations in this too means you'll want to read instead of listen.

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in 1911, an “Amazon” meant any woman rebel—which, to a lot of people, meant any girl who left home and went to college.

“Professor Hugo Munsterberg says that women are not fit for jury duty because they are unwilling to listen to argument and cannot be brought to change their opinion on any subject.”

experiments Münsterberg and Marston conducted together in the Psychological Laboratory in Emerson Hall and on their students at Radcliffe were designed to detect deception.

Münsterberg visited Orchard in the state penitentiary in Boise.

For seven hours, over two days, he subjected Orchard to nearly one hundred deception tests.

Before Münsterberg began his tests, he was sure Orchard was lying. By the time he was done, he’d become convinced that Orchard was telling the truth.

To write movies, he had to turn lies into truths: he had to learn how to tell a story that wasn’t true but that, on film, would seem to be.

He invented the lie detector test.

Hardly a magazine was sold, in 1925 and 1926, that didn’t feature an article that asked, “Can a Woman Run a Home and a Job, Too?”

The Equal Rights Amendment—“ Men and women shall have equal rights throughout the United States”—had been introduced into Congress in 1923, but Tyson found it woefully naïve; it failed to offer any remedy for, or even any illumination of, the structural challenges of combining motherhood and work.

Hays Code. It prohibited films from depicting anything that would “lower the moral standards of those who see it,” including nudity, childbirth, and homosexuality.

Most heartache Marston diagnosed as the product of deceit. “In a majority of cases which are brought to me as a consulting psychologist for love or marital adjustment, there are self-deceptions to be uncovered as well as attempts to deceive other people,” he explained. “Beneath such love conflicts there is almost always a festering psychological core of dishonesty.”

not even girls want to be girls so long as our feminine archetype lacks force, strength, power. Not wanting to be girls they don’t want to be tender, submissive, peaceloving as good women are. Women’s strong qualities have become despised because of their weak ones. The obvious remedy is to create a feminine character with all the strength of Superman plus all the allure of a good and beautiful woman. 14

“Comic books can probably be best understood if they are looked upon as an expression of the folklore of this age,” they explained.

She wasn’t meant to be a superwoman; she was meant to be an everywoman.

This is, of course, not a healthy sex directed toward marriage and family life, but an anti-social sex, sex made as alluring as possible while its normal term in marriage is barred by the ground rules from the start.”

Wednesday, September 25, 2024

A Moveable Feast

A Moveable FeastA Moveable Feast by Ernest Hemingway
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

My review for this didn't really change, I still think it doesn't really give a good idea about Paris, but I did add a star because I realized what Hemingway is really talking about is hunger. The hunger he had to be an important writer, the hunger he had to learn all he could from everyone and every experience. (That being said, I still think he is probably an INTJ who thinks he is the smartest guy in the room). Also, nostalgia for the time he was poor and things seemed simpler. He blames the rich on the corruption of his marriage and his life, but maybe it was just his hunger turned to envy and he lost sight of what was really important. It's a nostalgic book for sure, but it does have great writing.

When we booked our trip to Europe, I started reading books that were known to capture the essence of places we were visiting. This book is touted as Hemingway's lovesong to Paris. I have to say it didn't really take me there (nor was I reminded of it while I was in Paris). But I did love the vivid snippets from his life. It made me want to get to know more about Hemingway, and the artists and authors he associated with there. Watching Midnight in Paris before reading this helped me visualize the characters more. It is interesting how time and life plays with memory and it would be interesting to see if he felt so romantic about his first wife if he had written this in the present tense, rather than at the end of his life in Idaho. He also described his writing process, which was very interesting.

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There are so many sorts of hunger.  In the spring there are more.  But that's gone now.  Memory is hunger.

Friday, September 20, 2024

Our Town

Our TownOur Town by Thornton Wilder
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Read this to brush up on it after reading Tom Lake . It's a shorter play than I thought. Some of it hasn't aged well and I'm curious how modern directors and audiences deal with this. But the vision behind the play is timeless- the idea that you can't really appreciate life as you are living it but that we know life is precious and we regret not valuing it in the moment. The edition I read also gave a history of Wilde writing the play along with notes he gave of certain productions, which was very interesting and insightful. The book also claims that it is being preformed somewhere around the world every night, so I guess I'll have to seek out a production. ;).

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Thursday, September 19, 2024

True Biz

True BizTrue Biz by Sara Nović
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

I like that this was written about the deaf community by someone in that community. I learned a lot about cochlear implants, pros and (mostly) cons. Novíc also included some informational pages at the end of chapters that explained more about sign language and how it's spoken. I was intrigued by subjects such as the difference between white and black sign language and the history of a (mostly) deaf community in Maine. The informational pages had exercises that made it seem like Novíc would expect this book to be taught in schools, which I think there should be more literature taught about other-abled individuals. But her characters have sex, take drugs, and are involved in terrorist like activities (thieving, blowing things up, making bombs--she even includes a recipe to make a bomb in one of her "informational" bits). There is no repercussions for these activities and even commendation for it. Not something we need in schools right now (or ever) no matter how "noble" the cause. Also the book ends at a weird spot with almost no resolutions for any of the problems she introduces. No relationships changed, no plans for the future mapped out, etc. This would be a one star book if it didn't also give good information about the deaf community.

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Wednesday, September 18, 2024

I'll Give You the Sun

 

I'll Give You the SunI'll Give You the Sun by Jandy Nelson
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I really enjoyed this YA selection. The character development is so strong. The characters are all quirky, but I totally believed in them and the changes that took place. It's about secrets we keep to protect others and ourselves, and how that can hurt everybody. It's about the complexity of desire--how do we go about fulfilling our desires without obliterating others along our way. Are there desires that should go unfulfilled? How forgiveness doesn't necessarily start with understanding, but forgiveness always leads to understanding. There is a gay character, and incidences of sex, so probably best for older YA readers--but it is one of the most developed and compassionate characterizations of a gay character I have read. Also, I thought the repercussions of sexual encounters that the characters were not ready for were again realistic, compassionate, and hopeful. Overall, I loved the emphasis of the brother/sister relationship and their love for each other despite their estrangement. Very neat ending, but who doesn't love that.

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People die, I think, but your relationship with them doesn't.  It continues and is ever-changing.

Thursday, September 5, 2024

Tom Lake

Tom LakeTom Lake by Ann Patchett
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I have a girl-author-crush on Ann Patchett. I fell in love with Bel Canto and it has only gotten stronger with each novel I've read of hers. Until I read her memoir earlier this year and thought it was aimless and she was a little smug. My girl-author crush was over. And so I went into Tom Lake ready to really be objective.
My thoughts as I started: this is a little quaint, and sentimental. This woman's life seems so perfect. Where is the drama and angst? She was an actor too? But she gave it up to be a cherry farmer and has no regrets? Really, no regrets? Her kids are normal and have no issues. What?! is going on? Ok well the writing is ok. And it's not wholly boring.
But then, ah, I see what you did, Anne. There is a little darkness to throw the whole thing into relief.
And taken as a whole, with. Our Town as model and inspiration, it is brilliant. The names that echo each other. The looking back and living it but observing it too (like Emily in the play). The moment of realization that we can never go back (realized in a new and relatable way). And really, set in the pandemic, it is beautiful. While the pandemic was horrible, there were moments of beauty, when the busyness was stripped away and we could see the joy of living day by day, some of us not unhappy that we were cocooned with the ones we loved in our own little island of a home. So then, yes, I fell in love with Anne all over again and she deserves to be a little smug because she is brilliant and I will never waver again.

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These were the things I used to think about, how with a slight shift in circumstance the outcome might have gone another way.

Wednesday, September 4, 2024

The Arm of the Starfish

 

The Arm of the Starfish (O'Keefe Family, #1)The Arm of the Starfish by Madeleine L'Engle
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

L'Engle does not make it a secret that her books have moral values written in them. This one is about the choices you make, how you determine whose truth you listen to. Do you listen to the alluring, attractive truth that will get you what you desire or do you listen to your inner voice? When a person betrays you once, should you trust them again? Besides the obviousness of what she names her characters (Joshua=Jesus; Molec=Caananite god that required child sacrifice, etc.), L'Engle does a good job of putting a young person in a situation where the right path is not always obvious. On the side, there is the science of using star fish to engineer a way to regrow limbs which is still fascinating. A wholesome novel for young people, if a bit dated and corny.

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The Bone Clocks

 

The Bone ClocksThe Bone Clocks by David Mitchell
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I would give this 3 stars but the writing is really good so it gets 4. Each section is about a different character, and we are thrown nilly willy into their world so it takes a couple of pages to get your bearing. Mitchell does a good job of giving each character their own flair, so much so that at times it felt like a different book entirely. Its premise is that there are beings who can inhabit different bodies, thus living forever. Some are just this way and others use nefarious means to exercise this power. It takes most of the book to really understand what is going on, so it's good that Mitchell gives a good ride along the way. I am still trying to understand the point of the author's chapters but all in all it is an interesting and entertaining read.

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Love's pure free joy when it works, but when it goes bad you pay for the good hours at loan shark prices.

if an atrocity isn't written about, it stops existing when the last witnesses die. 

Monday, September 2, 2024

The Poppy War

 

The Poppy War (The Poppy War, #1)The Poppy War by R.F. Kuang
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I don't know a lot about the history of China, and so maybe I don't appreciate the parallelisms that exist. and miss a layer of this novel. On the surface it is about an orphaned student who excels at school in order to avoid being sold into marriage and motherhood. She discovers the power of the gods accessed through drugs (poppy) and the god of fire calls to her. Their generation experiences war including a siege, betrayal, and the witnessing of (pretty graphic) atrocities of war. Experiencing all this and losing someone close to her has her breaking all the rules her mentor cautioned her with as she seeks revenge in an explosive way. But what are the consequences and can she live with it? Will she continue to demand justice from those who abandoned her people? What sacrifice is acceptable for the greater good? Who decides what the greater good is? This is all set up I'm sure for the following installments, which I will get to eventually but between some of the graphic violence and not completely compelling characters I think I will take a break.

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This misery she reveled in because she had chosen it for herself.

Now, with the introduction of psychedelic plants, Jiang drew these threads into one unified theory, a theory of spiritual connection through psychedelics to the dream world where the gods might reside.

"Do you know what the word entheogen means?" She shook her head.  "It means the generation of the god within," he said.  He reached out and tapped her forehead in the same place.  "The merging of god and person."

The Dog Stars

 

The Dog StarsThe Dog Stars by Peter Heller
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

A novel set in the period after the cataclysmic event that ushers in the dystopia but before society has time to establish a new order. It reads a lot like a western--with machine guns and airplanes. Two men team up to withstand the looters and marauders. Bangley asserts that everyone is out to kill you and acts accordingly, almost seeming to like the hunt and kill. Hig wants to give people the benefit of the doubt. Almost always Bangley is right, but Hig is a romantic and seeks connection. Luckily, Heller lets Hig score a few points. It is the study in how to balance the practicalities of staying alive while still trying to believe in good, love, and compassion.  It is an interesting book with well developed characters and the plot meanders in ways that aren't predictable. Enjoyable.

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Meaning that in fishing I had always all my life brought the best of myself.  My attention and carefulness, my willingness to risk, and my love.  Patience.

life was inside death, virulent and insistent as a strain of flu.

Whatever is left of whatever they distill is more concentrated in there complete and dangerous freedom.

Grief is an element.  It has its own cycle like the carbon cycle, the nitrogen.  It never diminishes not ever.  It passes in and out of everything.

Amazing how not having to kill someone frees up a relationship generally.