The Lonely Polygamist by
Brady UdallMy rating:
4 of 5 starsMy curiousity about modern polygamy peaked about 3 years ago, and I thought the discussion/creative plot-lines with this genre were pretty much exhausted, so I wasn't inclined to pick this book up. Even when it was on best-of lists last year, I didn't bite. But then my BSU alumni magazine came out and a quick browse showed Brady Udall and his much lauded book...I didn't look close enough to realize that Udall teaches at BSU--I thought he had graduated from BSU and so I ran right out to see what a product of my alma matar could produce.
Turns out, it is a pretty good family drama. Although I could never fully sympathize with Golden Richards, the patriarch of this little tribe--he is too passive, too timid, and phlegmatic to really be someone to root for--he probably isn't too different from people we actually know.
The opening scene has Golden arriving home from a long drive, needing desperately to pee, but unable to find an unoccupied bathroom in a house with 3 wives and 27 children. Normally, I roll my eyes at the shock-value authors use to describe bodily functions in the first chapter--which seems to becoming a trend--but this was actually one of the funniest scenes in the book.
The rest of the book is told alternately from a wife's, a child's, and Golden's point of view. Perhaps the most sympathetic (and fully realized) character is the child Rusty, who is misunderstood and only craves a little love from anyone who has time to give it. I couldn't help wondering if Udall doesn't resent growing up in a big family (he dedicated his book to his 8 brothers and sisters)for while he treats the religion with a sort of sympathetic objectivity, he drives the point home again and again that a family that size cannot meet the emotional needs of anyone. Love can only be so big...
Explosions, both literal and figurative, play prominent roles in the plots and I can almost make the connection (because there obviously is one) but if it's beyond the illustration of the volatility of man, I haven't quite worked it out yet.
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